http://madamenoire.com/30981/10-signs-you%e2%80%99re-defending-a-loser/
Please comment, men AND ladies. All too many men in my opinion fit some of these categories but I don't feel that necessarily makes them all losers. Irresponsible, yes. Cheap, definitely. Insensitive, greedy, and untrustworthy - of course. But an outright loser? And of course ladies you might be thinking "Girl please, maybe you are the one defending a loser" but tell you what. If he spends time and energy on me, fixes my car, makes sure I eat and sleep and have my bills paid, encourages me to become a better person and wouldn't hesitate to put someone's head through a wall if he/she takes a wrong step in my direction then maybe that's the kind of loser I want. Shyt I guess that makes him a damn good loser. They say chivalry is dead, but I kinda like the idea of someone defending my honor and doing everything in their power to show me everyday just how much he loves me and wants to see me succeed even though he's got some growing of his own to do.
